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blvntsandbras:

kucala:

meowtian:

beijinhos:

hint: if a person with clinical depression and anxiety says theyre tired …. dont tell them they have no reason to be …. bc guess what….. They Know and Its Shitty

Louder!!!

I just want to add one thing-

If you have depression or anxiety? you’re not tired for no reason.

You’re tired because you have depression/anxiety.

Not only do they both come with low energy/fatigue as a legit common side effect, but they’re both fucking /exhausting/. fighting your brain all the time? exhausting. adrenaline crashes from anxiety/panic attacks? exhausting. being on edge all the time? exhausting. plus doing things costs /more/ energy when you have those mental illnesses.

You’re not tired for no reason, you’re tied because you have an illness that makes you tired.

I needed to hear this so bad that it made me cry

louisesbelchers:

No one really understands how much compliments actually mean to me, like I sometimes brush them off with a joke and a quick “thank you,” but really, I remember compliments forever, so if you’ve ever complimented me or done something nice for me, thank you so much.

erini-v:

This is for the mentally ill people who stay mentally ill. The ones that medication doesn’t work for, or who medication only alleviates some of their symptoms, or medication makes your symptoms more managable but only just so, just enough that everything is still hard, that you can see the difference between what you can do and what other people can

this is for the people whose doctor said “this is as good as it’s going to get”

who diligently take their meds every day knowing that this is as healthy as they will ever be and get up and face the world anyway

i am so so proud of you

realizing you’re on the ace spectrum like

strawberry-jambouree:

“I’d hit that.” “You… you don’t even know them though??”

“Oh come on, everyone has a list of celebrities they’d totally have sex with if they had a chance.” “Haha yeah ok” *internally* what

“Ya so like for the past few years I’ve felt zero attraction to people I wasn’t friends with first?? Lol what’s up with that”

Why did you have to have sex with them?? Couldn’t you just hold it?? Like pee??

“You’ll meet someone who makes you feel like that someday, don’t worry” “……sounds fake but ok”

“Sex is an important part of a relationship! Everyone has sexual needs!” “….sounds fake but ok”

“Dude that girl is so hot” “I know right?? Look at her fucking eyeliner. Goals. The fuck.” “No I meant like… look at that ass” “Are we looking at the same person are you really focussing on her ass look at how visually appealing her outfit is and dont you dare fuckin tell me that eyeliner isnt fierce as hell”

“Aesthetic attraction and sexual attraction are two different things” *puzzle pieces vERY RAPIDLY FALLING INTO PLACE*

*staring at the ceiling at two-thirty in the morning* i could die a virgin and i would regret absolutely nothing

“What’s your ideal girl like?” “Uh… my best friend?” “Oh cute, you want your girlfriend to be the one who knows you best!” “No I meant I am literally only attracted to my best friend she is my ideal girl please help I am dying”

“We’ve been dating for six months and we still haven’t had sex!!” “Have you marathoned Star Wars together yet?” “Yeah we did that like two weeks ago” “Well what more do you want”

*thinking about an attractive woman* *dissecting my entire personality and sexuality to figure out why I’m attracted to her this time* is it the muscles. Oh my god is this a sex thing. Oh my god what the hell is this. Oh my god what the fuck is the wtf the fuck the fUCK

*Next day* Zarya could punch me in the face while eating me out and I’d let her but only because she’s a fictional character and therefore could literally never do that

*writing fanfic* ONLY CLOSE FRIENDS HAVE SEX BC ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE MAKES SENSE TO ME

(why is that tho. maybe i should look into that *doesnt look into it*)

“What do you find most attractive in a girl?” “Gotta love those strong emotional bonds” “No I meant like what’s a turn-on for you?” “DID I McFUCKING STUTTER”

*staring at the ceiling at two-thirty in the morning again* sexual attraction should be added to the cryptid wikia

“Yeah sex sounds like a great stress reliever and a nice way to strengthen the bonds between you and your partner(s)” “Well there’s more to it than that…” *The Arctic Monkey’s Do I Wanna Know starts playing in my head* “Haha ok buddy”

“There’s more to being ace than just not being interested in having sex or not feeling sexual attraction. In fact there’s a whole spectrum. You may even feel sexual attraction sometimes but still be ace. You can also be gay and ace at the same time.” “…bro.” “Also it’s totally normal.” *sobbing* “…bro. Bro there are words for it there’s an entire list oh my god-”

“-finally.”

theotherguysride:

kasaron:

To be frank; I would implore anyone to avoid trying to hurt me or my friends, whatever the motivation, or attempting to use that threat of violence to coerce me, to reconsider.

I am kind. I am caring. I love, enthusiastically, people for who they are. 

I despise and loathe every thought of harming another person.

But I will stop you. And it will possibly result in your permanent injury or death. 

I will loathe every instant of it, but you will be stopped. 

My philosophy in a nutshell. 

I don’t want to hurt you. 

But if you try to hurt me or mine, I will render you incapable of harming me or anyone else, ever again. I’ll try not to kill you. But then, some would consider killing you to be kinder. 

Do NOT fuck with my people. 

This has been a PSA

An open letter to fic authors writing ace characters poorly

the-dragongirl:

Dear author who says that it’s totally fine for one person in a canon ship to sleep with other people just because the other person is asexual,

Please stop. Look, I am 100% for poly folks getting different kinds of fulfillment out of different relationships. And if you want to have a relationship between an ace person and a non-ace person involve an agreement that the non-ace person can seek sexual intimacy elsewhere, I am also good with that. But saying that it’s fine for the non-ace person to cheat on their spouse (aka, to sleep around without their spouse’s consent) for the sole reason that they are ace? Not okay. Saying that the non-ace person can’t love their spouse because they don’t have sex? Doubley not okay. Seriously, please don’t do that. Ace people can and do have fulfilling romantic relationships with non-ace people, both monogamously and polyamorously, and having an ace partner is not an excuse to be terrible to them.

No love,

–Me

P.S. Aro people, please don’t take this to mean I am not acknowledging that you are here, and can have fulfilling relationships with or without sex, because I know you can, and not all important relationships are romantic ones. This was relevant to a particular fic in which a character was tagged as ace, and it was handled badly. Lots of love, me.