dracaspina
replied to your post
“A note to my followers who want to send me prompts: When sending me…”
Can you post the link to your explanation on the DW post so I can read it?
Actually, now that I’m actually looking at it. Bugger. I need to copy-paste, because the entry in question is locked to my access list, so it would be less useful to link to it. (Which I didn’t even think about when I first posted that.)
It is also a five-year-old post, so some of the wording is not what I’d use now, but the sentiments I had behind it, I still stand by. Also, I am in entirely different fandoms at this point, and those smushings still bother me.
Relevant part of the post itself:
They are two separate people, not one individual. Jack and Ianto, not Janto. Gwen and Jack, not Gwack. McKay and Sheppard, not McShep. McKay and Weir, not McWeir. Spike and Buffy, not Spuffy. Harry and Snape, not Snarry. To name the ones that come to mind the easiest, from most recently seen to least recently seen, roughly.
The fastest way to get me not to read a fic is to name the pairing with some smushed up name, or some other sort of not-their-names way of identifying the people involved. I do not think mashing names together is cute.
And from the comments:
I have a massive THING about individuality on a personal basis which spills over to fandom; it’s nice to know I’m not the only one who feels so strongly about it.
– quoted from the person who commented to the post
Oh, yes, very much so. People are people, even if they’re fictional, and denying them their individuality in that manner is… reprehensible, in my mind.
– my response to that
In the end, my issues with names being smashed together is that even if they’re just characters, they’re still individuals, and I feel very strongly that denying people their agency as individuals is wrong.
Given that, though, if someone tags posts with smushed names, it’s their blog, and they can do whatever they want, and it’s not my business what they use to sort things and organize things and identify things.
I am still perfectly within my own rights to say I will not interact with asks or reblogs which use that particular fandom convention, for whatever reason. At this point, mostly to keep from feeling the sort of rage that comes from the same place as being nothing more than an extension of my parents or S.O. even when people knew my name and could have – should have – used it.
Just. A person, real or fictional, does not cease to exist as an individual simply because they have a relationship with someone else. Name smushing has always read to me as a way of saying “these are one person, not two people”.
And no matter how my views may change about a lot of things? This hill I will die on, and have no regrets at all.